WHAT IS THE PIOUS HUSBAND FOR WOMAN..?
Often I heard people quote..i will die alone and will be judge alone..i will leave my wife, my wealth, my children and on..and in the end I stand alone infront of my God and the only one who can save me only my iman and my amal..
When I heard this I feel like “so..”? what are you trying to say ya’ni..? it’s true but what do you mean..?..which amal can save you anyway..? we all know we will die but when you talk about amal..isn’t your family also your amal..? isn’t your wealth also your amal if you use it for the sake of Allah? sound for me like they all didn’t mean a thing, when we know our relationship should be To God as well to mankind, God didn’t ask you to forget your dunnya..He asks you to be moderate between akhirah and your dunnia, not to be extreme in anything.
I often read how many of us need to be pious wife, but have we sometimes talk about pious husband too, who will not forsake his wife, neglecting them, abandon them and could care less to their own children. They might busy to work or preach outside there, but little time they could spent to their own family and sometime even ignoring them.
If The Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said, “The best of you is the best one to his family, does not mean you need to look after them..? give love as much as you can, and when you love them Allah too love you, when you look at your wife with mercy Allah too will give a mercy to you, is not only about giving command, reward and punishment but more to the affection, attention and appreciation. Prophet says Fear Allah in (treating) women, if you leave them then who do you think will carry your own responsibility..?
Prophet remind us everything has it’s own right.. He (PBUH) says “Do (volunteer) fasting (some days) and do not fast (in other days), pray at night (some nights) and sleep (in other nights). Your body has a right on you (to rest), your eye has a right on you (to sleep), and your wife has a right on you”..you could be so busy but each of your duty STILL remain there.
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said,”A Dinar (a currency) that you spend on your family, a Dinar that you spend on a poor person and a Dinar that you spend in the sake of Allah. The one that carries the most reward is the one that you spend on your family.”
For woman pious husband not only those who can guide them to be more close to Allah but those who treat them well, passionate, respect, care and has time to the family.
Often I heard people quote..i will die alone and will be judge alone..i will leave my wife, my wealth, my children and on..and in the end I stand alone infront of my God and the only one who can save me only my iman and my amal..
When I heard this I feel like “so..”? what are you trying to say ya’ni..? it’s true but what do you mean..?..which amal can save you anyway..? we all know we will die but when you talk about amal..isn’t your family also your amal..? isn’t your wealth also your amal if you use it for the sake of Allah? sound for me like they all didn’t mean a thing, when we know our relationship should be To God as well to mankind, God didn’t ask you to forget your dunnya..He asks you to be moderate between akhirah and your dunnia, not to be extreme in anything.
I often read how many of us need to be pious wife, but have we sometimes talk about pious husband too, who will not forsake his wife, neglecting them, abandon them and could care less to their own children. They might busy to work or preach outside there, but little time they could spent to their own family and sometime even ignoring them.
If The Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said, “The best of you is the best one to his family, does not mean you need to look after them..? give love as much as you can, and when you love them Allah too love you, when you look at your wife with mercy Allah too will give a mercy to you, is not only about giving command, reward and punishment but more to the affection, attention and appreciation. Prophet says Fear Allah in (treating) women, if you leave them then who do you think will carry your own responsibility..?
Prophet remind us everything has it’s own right.. He (PBUH) says “Do (volunteer) fasting (some days) and do not fast (in other days), pray at night (some nights) and sleep (in other nights). Your body has a right on you (to rest), your eye has a right on you (to sleep), and your wife has a right on you”..you could be so busy but each of your duty STILL remain there.
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said,”A Dinar (a currency) that you spend on your family, a Dinar that you spend on a poor person and a Dinar that you spend in the sake of Allah. The one that carries the most reward is the one that you spend on your family.”
For woman pious husband not only those who can guide them to be more close to Allah but those who treat them well, passionate, respect, care and has time to the family.
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